Husband fully handle baby during confinement

Is it ok and normal to let husband and MIL fully handle baby during your confinement esp when you go thru csect and still in pain even after 3 weeks. I feel like im using them altho i can still walk and move around, despite the random pains. I feel so bad for my husband who already started working and always have to take care of baby right from when he’s back from work to late night and early morning. I feel like im being selfish for sleeping thru the night and resting.

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Explain yourself to him. Talk to him. Share your thoughts. Maybe you can start with washing the bottles and baby’s laundry? It’s not going to last forever, you will eventually be as involved as they are. Take rest now.