Need to rant it out. Me and my hubby decided not to do baby 1st month shower but my in laws side insisted on doing and I currently staying with at my mother house. If we are doing the baby shower we have to go to my in laws house and do and if I do my in law side, my own family side also have to do. So make it 2 baby shower. So fuzzy ler. Say what "it's their first grandson have to do." It's just 1 month celebration and I am not that pantang kind of mother. Just feel my in laws side very irritating.

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Any chance to get an outside venue and have both sides of family come at the same time? Maybe a friend's condo function room . If you really don't feel like doing then tell your husband to let the parents know firmly and that you all will invest more efforts for the first day? How about doing 100 day celebration? I know moms are so tired after confinement that we don't want to plan for another party .

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Home Random Talk need rant out hubby decided not baby 1st month shower but in laws side insisted doing i currently staying with mother house if doing baby shower have go in laws house if i in law side own family side have make 2 baby shower fuzzy ler say what their first grandson have 1 month celebration i not that pantang kind mother feel in laws side very irritating