Need to rant it out. Me and my hubby decided not to do baby 1st month shower but my in laws side insisted on doing and I currently staying with at my mother house. If we are doing the baby shower we have to go to my in laws house and do and if I do my in law side, my own family side also have to do. So make it 2 baby shower. So fuzzy ler. Say what "it's their first grandson have to do." It's just 1 month celebration and I am not that pantang kind of mother. Just feel my in laws side very irritating.

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I was in the same exact situation as you. The best way to settle it both is to do it a outside venue. This way BOTH families are able to come and celebrate their FIRST grandchild.

Totally feel you mummy. I got my husband to talk to his family but lucky my side is more understanding. You’re not alone!!

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Never had any 1 month / 100 days party, and don't think we missed out at all on anything.

We both agree not doing due to convid19 both side parent also agree.

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no-no now

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Home Random Talk need rant out hubby decided not baby 1st month shower but in laws side insisted doing i currently staying with mother house if doing baby shower have go in laws house if i in law side own family side have make 2 baby shower fuzzy ler say what their first grandson have 1 month celebration i not that pantang kind mother feel in laws side very irritating