Need to rant it out. Me and my hubby decided not to do baby 1st month shower but my in laws side insisted on doing and I currently staying with at my mother house. If we are doing the baby shower we have to go to my in laws house and do and if I do my in law side, my own family side also have to do. So make it 2 baby shower. So fuzzy ler. Say what "it's their first grandson have to do." It's just 1 month celebration and I am not that pantang kind of mother. Just feel my in laws side very irritating.

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If in laws insist on doing, can arrange for the party to take place at your mom's place? Why do you have to be the one to travel over to their house to celebrate when in fact this is your baby and you should decide how it is done. Like if you already give in to organising a baby shower then they have to compromise on the other rules you set. You know, give and take. Cannot be they insist everything and you have to follow. You are the parent so you decide what is best :)

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Home Random Talk need rant out hubby decided not baby 1st month shower but in laws side insisted doing i currently staying with mother house if doing baby shower have go in laws house if i in law side own family side have make 2 baby shower fuzzy ler say what their first grandson have 1 month celebration i not that pantang kind mother feel in laws side very irritating