Need to rant it out. Me and my hubby decided not to do baby 1st month shower but my in laws side insisted on doing and I currently staying with at my mother house. If we are doing the baby shower we have to go to my in laws house and do and if I do my in law side, my own family side also have to do. So make it 2 baby shower. So fuzzy ler. Say what "it's their first grandson have to do." It's just 1 month celebration and I am not that pantang kind of mother. Just feel my in laws side very irritating.