My mother in law had issues with my intimacy with my father in law... The intimacy was the same I have with my dad.. Today my 4 year old daughter runs to her grandpa and plays with him...she has issues with that too. What could be her reason of such insecurity with me and my daughter? She has rebuked us on the matter a lot many times and my father in law is a lamb...while she's around and otherwise too.. Answers pls...

Hi Naaz, this is really a tricky issue. There is a possibility that your mom-n-law is orthodox in her thinking, which is why she doesn't like your relationship with your father-in-law. Worse is the fact that she chides your daughter too. It would be a good idea to speak to her openly about it so there is no misunderstanding between the two of you. Involve your husband in the discussion too. There is a good chance he will be able to talk his mom out of her insecurities.