My inlaws have been constantly commenting on planning a child. Sometimes they bring it up indirectly in front of other relatives also, it has become really frustrating. Me and my husband have talked on this and we want to wait for some time. Moreover, I think this is totally both of our's decision and nobody else's. How should I deal with my inlaws' incessant questioning? Please help!

I think it would be good to sit down and have a talk with your in laws, both you and your husband. Of course, you will need to speak with your husband so that both of you agree on this and also agree on what to tell the folks. Most in laws do not really understand exactly what you are going through in your life and also what your priorities and reasons are. So explaining this to them (in a nice way) will help them understand your intentions better. All the best!