son gets jealous of other children

Question

Moms, I could really use some advice or insights from those who may have been through a similar situation.My son, who is now 3 and a half years old, has been showing signs of jealousy towards his newborn sister, who is just 3 months old. Whenever Im caring for or spending time with his little sister, he often acts out or seeks extra attention from me. Its been challenging to manage his feelings of jealousy while also ensuring that both of my children feel loved and valued.Moreover, Ive noticed that he also gets jealous when I hold or communicate with other peoples kids. It seems like he feels threatened whenever I interact with other children, and Im not sure how to address this behavior in a sensitive and supportive way.I want to help my son navigate these emotions and understand that its normal to feel jealous sometimes, but I also want to encourage positive interactions and foster a loving sibling relationship between him and his sister. Is it possible?

Dawn · Answer

my eldest knows i love him lots if not more so theres no such issue 💕

Anonymous · Answer

me too mummy! my son is 3 and Im giving birth in 3 months time. he often gets jealous when I carry or interact with another kid especially boys around his age. I am preparing him now for his baby sister. I often prepare him for his baby sister by talking to him what we can do together to care for baby sister. tips from my cousin is that to get him involve in attending to baby sister. so that he feels important. and just talk to him when someone else is attending to baby. reassure him that u love him so much no matter what and u are still his mummy.