My husband wants to live separately, but does not want a divorce. I want it to be closed affair, but is it possible?

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If you have been separated from him for 3 years, you will still require his consent for the divorce to take effect. If you have been separated for 4, no consent is required. Unfortunately, there is no way you can keep it a closed affair as you will have to sign a Deed of Separation at the lawyer's office. You could still hide it from your family and relatives if you want, though it's not advisable. It's not something you'll be able to hide for long anyway. www.lawsociety.org.sg/forPublic/YoutheLaw/Divorce.aspx

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Yes, you can as separation for a period of time is one of the grounds for divorce, apart from adultery, desertion, and unreasonable behaviour The separation can end in either reconciliation or divorce. The conditions for divorce continue to apply. 3 years of separation is required for divorce with both parties’ consent. 4 years of separation is needed for divorce without consent. http://singaporelegaladvice.com/law-articles/separation/

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Its always better to have a clean cut and dont live in a grey area. If things cant work out, just move on, u will have a better life than hoping fpr miracle. Its not healthy too. Have u thought of what's next after living separately and keeping it a close affair? Isit fear of letting go, or expectation of him returning? These 2 are both wrong.

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Yup if u both thoughts r like separation better to take divorce or just stay away for few days then may b everything alright n can get back again .. just think abt it , divorce means it’s completely out of relationship

Your husband is a cunning asshole. He just doesn't want his assets to be divided to the both of you. Go get your own lawyer and suck dry all of his properties.

If you both live separately for more than 4 years you can file for divorce with out his consent.

Nothing would come out of this relationship. It's better to part ways and start anew.

I dont think thats possible as for divorce you would still need his consent

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If you're married, why you have to live separately with your partner?