My grandma maid of 3 years has a bf. We saw her holding hands with an man at orchard. How should we approach this?

oh dear, that's quite a tricky one. would be good to broach the subject soon, as it's a matter of trust as well. speak to her on a non-off day to find out her side of the story before telling her what was discovered. worse case scenario is to send her back if the family cannot accept this, esp if having a relationship is beyond the boundaries set in the first place.