My grandma maid of 3 years has a bf. We saw her holding hands with an man at orchard. How should we approach this?

Maids have a life too and can have fun :) having said that i'd bring it up casually to see her reaction, discuss a bit n let it go...as long as there isn't any of this coming into my house or work.

Invite the boyfriend for one of your family dinner so he can see how amazing the family she works with is and always support her in all the effort she does for your family

be liberal about it, i would talk to her and emphasize that although i am ok with her dating someone but she can never bring the man home or she risk losing her job.

This seems like a personal matter of your maid and doesn't really need any approaching. Unless it is affecting her work directly, it should not be a problem.

I would not care as long as she is doing something which would affect our routine and lives. Whom she meets or talks to after work is really not my concern.

...as long as she does her assigned duties there should be no problem. Helpers are human too just like everyone else :) We feel...we breathe..we love.

I wouldn't mind. If shes on her off day, fair enough. How she spends it is her own choice. Everyone needs their own social circle after all!

thats a good thing. she'll stay positive at work. unless by mentioning "Orchard" you were pointing to something else?

Relax. She also has her own life. It's actually not your business unless it's affecting her work. Love and let love!

As long as her personal life doesn't interfere with her work, she is allowed to do as she pleases in her down time.