My first boyfriend recently just added me on Facebook. And as I was scrolling through his timeliness looking at his pictures, I felt all fuzzy inside and very tempted to contact him and ask him out for coffee. He has a girlfriend now and I'm married with kids. What do you think? No harm right?

Well, both of you are unavailable. It's best not to tread dangerous waters. Sure, the both of you shared wonderful memories, but that was in the past. There was a reason why the break up happened. There will be another break up if you decide to ask him out for coffee and both of you give in to temptation. Of course, that's assuming he is also open to the idea of cheating on his wife. I would remain Facebook friends, unless you are very sure you can be friends with him i.e. no sexual attraction between each other. From the way you typed your message, it does seem like you're trying to look for something more.