Mums, if you find an usual number of men's numbers in your helper's diary, is this something you would worry about? How would you investigate? Or would you just question her?

I would not intrude on her personal life but i will be cautious to make sure she does not bring any man back to my home

doesn't matter to me. none of my business. unless it affects me directly.

Well, if employer don't check your phone, the same should apply.

If she does her job, her personal life is not my concern

thanks