overreacting?

Hi mummies. what are your thoughts when your mil brings your lo out without you knowing? feeds lo things u didn't approve of (such as foods you've not fed her before)? my husband doesn't rly help me communicate with his mother for me.. I was diagnosed with depression right after I got married and got worst after I gave birth.. now I think I might be getting into depression again.. my husband told my mil to inform us if she's bringing lo out (yes even with this virus gg on she still brings baby out to dabao or visiting relative). my mil wasn't happy she slammed the door. now I feel like crap bc I've no where to go and I'm forced to stay with my in laws..