low in mood, overthinking..

Hi mummies, since i got into 3rd trimester i feel quite stressed. not sure if its due to the hormones.. but i realised that my anxiety is triggering alr. i have been overthinking, i feel like no one (especially my partner) cares, i feel lonely and super low almost everyday. i tried to tell my partner about it, but he doesn't seem to understand or wants to know more.. which upsets me even further. firstly the main problem was because i feel like lack of attention from him as he is now working 12hrs shift so we rarely get to talk during the day. even after his shift ends, he would talk to me about 5mins then play his mobile game till he reached home after shower have his meal etc he will continue gaming again. at times he would reply me in between his matches but these days he would reply me after he is done and wants to sleep. he was on leave for 2 days, but we rarely get to talk still. i really feel like shitt, like i am not important. i am getting really stressed about it as i tend to think alot and i have been crying myself to sleep for nights now.😔

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i feel that way too tbh. i cried whenever my husband went to work. i feel so lonely. also i was very clingy but coming towards the end of pregnancy i feel like we argue alot. maybe both stress as i kept needing help and he is just tired and probably overthinking as well. sometimes men channel it all out by gaming/sleeping. pisses me off but so long as he is infront of me. try to find things to do to distract yourself. whatever you like. read smth, make smth, clean, prepare for baby. idk. i know i sleep alot in hopes to time pass by quickly. shop for baby things. watch youtube videos labor vlogs or clean with me or nesting vlogs. try not to think too much okay. easier said thn done but im sure you can get through this phase.

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