Mummies pls advice me. I am relli veri depressed. I had a shortgun marriage. Kena pregnant before I marry hubby. I was thinking to abort or maybe have the baby but without him, but he convince me to get married cause he both love me and the baby. But the other day I was on his Facebook and I saw his message to his old fren where he say that I was pregnant, so marry me, bo pian. He say he actually want to oredi break up, but I got pregnant. So he just do the right thing. I am very hurt, because I never force him and he was the one kept bugging me to get married. I feel like just throw the divorce paper on his face. Any advice?

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I was also shotgun married , in fact I did use kids to tink to let hym settle down wit me .. wen I found out reali preg, we r happy .. bt aft tat prob came , whenever quarrel he wil say he divorced bt kids put down .. guys is like this , wen problem arise they say all sort of things.. but not to worry cos aft some tym, they will grow up n reali put effort , as they think since alrdy married so they shld put effort .. I was suffering for the first few yrs as he was msgin girl n flirting wit them .. bt aft tat he grow up n stop al this n work reali hard.. sometym it jux take time for them to change ..

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Home Random Talk mummies pls advice i relli veri depressed i had shortgun marriage kena pregnant before i marry hubby i was thinking abort maybe have baby but without him but convince get married cause both love baby but other day i was facebook i saw message old fren where say that i was pregnant marry bo pian he say actually want oredi break but i got pregnant so right thing i very hurt because i never force him was kept bugging get married i feel like throw