Mummies pls advice me. I am relli veri depressed. I had a shortgun marriage. Kena pregnant before I marry hubby. I was thinking to abort or maybe have the baby but without him, but he convince me to get married cause he both love me and the baby. But the other day I was on his Facebook and I saw his message to his old fren where he say that I was pregnant, so marry me, bo pian. He say he actually want to oredi break up, but I got pregnant. So he just do the right thing. I am very hurt, because I never force him and he was the one kept bugging me to get married. I feel like just throw the divorce paper on his face. Any advice?

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Frankly, i would not risk my whole marriage merely for something i read. He is being responsible whether or not he meant what he said. That itself is a good trait and worth fighting for. I suggest for you to have an open conversation with him otherwise instead of brooding over what he said why not, weigh the amount of good things he has done with that 1 statement. You should be able to get an answer, it is within yourself.

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