Mummies pls advice me. I am relli veri depressed. I had a shortgun marriage. Kena pregnant before I marry hubby. I was thinking to abort or maybe have the baby but without him, but he convince me to get married cause he both love me and the baby. But the other day I was on his Facebook and I saw his message to his old fren where he say that I was pregnant, so marry me, bo pian. He say he actually want to oredi break up, but I got pregnant. So he just do the right thing. I am very hurt, because I never force him and he was the one kept bugging me to get married. I feel like just throw the divorce paper on his face. Any advice?

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Since you are already married, are yourself a few Qs before going divorce. -do u still love him? -thrash it out with him and clear everything, so both of you can decide from there whether to continue or put a stop to it. -let him do the divorce instead, why u wan waste money and bear all this 😝. Save it for ur kid. - actually u are nt losing out, married and divorce, at least u still can subsidy and the necessary benefits. (So look at the brighter side, i mean since already married. I’m the same case, shortgun and married. )

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Home Random Talk mummies pls advice i relli veri depressed i had shortgun marriage kena pregnant before i marry hubby i was thinking abort maybe have baby but without him but convince get married cause both love baby but other day i was facebook i saw message old fren where say that i was pregnant marry bo pian he say actually want oredi break but i got pregnant so right thing i very hurt because i never force him was kept bugging get married i feel like throw