Hi mummies, I am feeling upset. My baby girl ( now 5 months plus) prefer my Husband alot. When papa is with her, she won't cry . He can bath , change, feed her she won't cry at all. But when baby is with me, she will cry when I change , feed her etc. :( This is so sad. Papa need to be within her sight or be the one attending to her . She will cry loudly if were me. I try to build bonding between us by talking and playing and feeding but it is so difficult cuz she keep Crying . Btw I am a EBM mum. No latching. Anyone experience this too ? Will they out grown this stage ? From a heartbroken mum.

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Go for a walk in Playground will help.. Usually bb stick to mum. Is it because your hubby more hands-on? Your hubby can go out a little and just you and your bb. Bb is okay without the main caregiver as you r familiar to her

5y ago

Yup he is quite hand on and spend more time than me with her. Because I spend my time pumping milk .