Mummies, how do your stop crying when feeling heartpain when seeing lo suffers from illness or any form of pain/torture? My newborn is hospitalized with lung infection. I couldnt help crying whenever i hear her cries or see her being uncomfortable. She has already cried till her voice is hoarse. It pains me alot. To hub, he finds me irritating and ridiculous to cry. What can i do not to cry and be stronger?

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Mummy, first of all, big hugs. it is not easy to see small babies in hosp for illness. Remember this, we are connected with baby. Babies feeds off our feeling, however we are feeling, baby will know. you need to be strong for your baby. You need to be positive so baby can fight on! Think positive. Smile when you visit baby. leave smiling. Don't ever cry while leaving. Baby WILL know. Keep the cryings away from baby... my 2nd child was admitted to NICU for breathing issues with tubes and wires connected to him. a senior nurse told me the above... hope it helps

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