From my experience, I had intercourse during my confinement period. My bleeding stopped at 1 week sharp after birth. I waited for at least 3 weeks or so. It was still dry at first and quite painful. Do not force yourself if you can't okay. My pain tolerance is quite high, I don't mind about the pain... I'm just afraid that the stitches will come off since I had vaginal delivery and had 18 stitches! Normally after a month onwards, you won't feel much pain. Its just too dry, the reason it's pain.
Hi mummy if u are breastfeeding normally u will feel dry. Best to use lubricant. I have sex after 6 weeks of pp. It's doesn't hurts but there will be a little dry. But it's depends on individual after all. :) oh yes if u are vaginal delivery u wont feel loose no worries.
And no, your vagina won't feel loose. Its very very tight and that's why you will feel extra pain 😅 My husband told me that it feels like you're a virgin due to the tightness.
It may hurt especially if there is an episiotomy that they stitched up. I waited 1 month+. Not loose, tight in fact.
Around 2 months after birth and yes it will hurt a little