Any mummies having difficulty in reaching to yr hubby by phone call or sms or any kind of communication means? My hubby since our dating time till marriage till we got our first child he still doing the same thing. He will either block my calls,sms and wattsapp wen he secretly doing something behind my back. I've told him ample times to juz answer once or juz sms back to at least response to my kol coz in case of any emergencies it will be too late for him to know. I understand he can be bz but I told him to not block my call. I did not disturb him coz I always give him time on his own. N wen I call him only wen there's important thing to talk. How I know he block my call was wen everytime I tried to reach him suddenly he put cut the line and my next call to him it's already VoiceMail. He's already a husband.. yup must he still not know the importance of a call from his wife. I did not call him every day By the way.

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First and foremost you will need to understand why your husband is "blocking" your call. Honestly speaking when my husband is at work, I try to minimise messaging and calling him because it becomes a distraction to work. And even if I do message him or coyntact him, he may not reply until much much later. Not because he is being irresponsible or ignoring me but it's due to the nature of his work. He is constantly having back to back meetings, on calls etc try to talk to him and ask him why he is ignoring your calls. listen to his explanation before blowing up or getting angry. many times we don't realise our actions and the words will hurt them and they end up being more "secretive" to us

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9y ago

n he doesn't look for his family or call me everyday. he is the sort of like he is satisfied or "egocentric" person that I am the one always looking for him n update him about me n baby. his calls to me is only once or twice per week even if it was after his werk he doest bother to look n call us his family. I can understand my husband despite us living away fm each other but he juz don't bother much bout his family here (me n baby).