Mother in Law

Mother in law wants to resign her job after I deliver the baby and stay with us forever. I know everyone would say it would be a big help and all. But I don’t mind if she comes to take care of the baby and resumes her job. But she wants to resign her job and stay with us forever. This isn’t about the baby anymore because it’s like taking away the private life I have with my husband too. It’s like I’m losing everything. Husband, baby, privacy, freedom etc. I can’t discuss this with her or my husband because my husband has no dad and he would say he would want to take care of his mom. I’m supposed to be stress free during this pregnancy but I’m feeling sad. I may sound like a bad person for not wanting to live with my mother in law but I just hope someone would understand that my feelings are valid. Thanks for listening guys. There’s no solution to this and I just have to go through this. 😔