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Hello mommies, just wanna share something.. nastress lng kase ako ng konte sa partner ko, porket alam nyang malaki sahod ko parang sakin nya nlng lahat inaasa. Check up ko sa saturday wala sya balak magbigay pang gastos. 😓 Dami din ako sinusuportahan, bnibigyan ko parents ko saka pang gastos ko sa araw araw. Tpos gusto pa nya bigay ko daw sa kanya yung budget ko for the whole cutoff. Sya daw mag bbudget for me. Point ko ng nman is dpat bnibigyan nya dn ako pg sumasahod sya. 😓 Di nga sya nag iipon sa panganganak ko. Nakaka bwisit nalang. 😓😓😓

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Did you tell him your concerns? Did you talk about money matters before you got married? Money talks aren't taboos, they are a reality. Kaya dapat nasesettle ito before pa man din nag-aasawa. In our case, my husband and I agreed that we handle our finances separately, but if it comes to budgeting sa household, I let him do it. I just don't want the stress of it plus he is good at it so kanya na yun. We don't think that this makes me less of a wife. Now when it comes to your baby, please talk to him about it. You need to tell him na you need his help sa finances because anak niya din naman yan and he has to be ready sa gastos dahil hindi biro ang magkaanak. If he won't give, show him your gastos and tell him if he really wouldn't want to share, then perhaps you should just live on your own and magkasundo na lang kayo sa barangay about sustento. Key here is that you should be open to him about this.

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