Salah ke ya?

Hi mommies. Sedikit kemusykilan. Is it wrong for me to keep an eye on my own kids? 1st mom, anak 1 yr, baru dpt kaki. One of my sil borak dgn biras, yg i rajin ikut anak i explore sana sini. Since she also hv 1 yr kids tp most of the time dia mmg lepas je that kids or suruh any anak dia yg jaga. My sil & biras mostly anak dah ramai from sekolah rendah until yg kecik. Takkan i nak put my trust kat anak diorang yg sekolah rendah tu tengokkan anak i? Diorang pun busy main. & sometimes bila anak hilang eh tanya kita pulak nmpk x anak dia zzz. Is it wrong tho??? Am i doing parenting wrong??? Help • thank you semua pada yg komen kata2 positif. Rlly appreciate it & thanks for making me not feeling alone & bad 🩷

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Tulis jawapan

Nothing wrong pun. Kan baru boleh jalan tu, memang kena pantau sebab asyik jatuh2 je belum stabil. Bahaya nak bagi lepas je main ngan budak2 lain sebaya dia. Dan ye itula beza anak sulung dengan anak ramai. Anak sulung kita akan lebih protective. Anak lepas2 tu kita akan biar je dia main (read: malas). But nothing wrong with what you are doing right now. Everybody learns through experience.

Baca lagi
2y ago

Tu la, shud be diorang pun faham sbb semua pernah jd first mom. Lain la dia anak first mungkin dah lepas tangan tp tu cara dia la kan :(