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Hi mommies. Sedikit kemusykilan. Is it wrong for me to keep an eye on my own kids? 1st mom, anak 1 yr, baru dpt kaki. One of my sil borak dgn biras, yg i rajin ikut anak i explore sana sini. Since she also hv 1 yr kids tp most of the time dia mmg lepas je that kids or suruh any anak dia yg jaga. My sil & biras mostly anak dah ramai from sekolah rendah until yg kecik. Takkan i nak put my trust kat anak diorang yg sekolah rendah tu tengokkan anak i? Diorang pun busy main. & sometimes bila anak hilang eh tanya kita pulak nmpk x anak dia zzz. Is it wrong tho??? Am i doing parenting wrong??? Help • thank you semua pada yg komen kata2 positif. Rlly appreciate it & thanks for making me not feeling alone & bad 🩷

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Totally not wrong. U r doing right thing. Like me, I don't trust anybody to watch over my kids including my husband. Nie kalau jumpa ramai2 family gathering kt rumah husband. Because I know my husband, die borak2 dan akan leka anak x tahu buat apa. I x salahkan my husband sbb ye lah family die kn nk borak2. Even ada anak buah yg dah sekolah menengah pun I x akan biarkan die watch over my kid. Itu bukan adik beradik die pun knape pula die tgk2kan anak I kan. I sampai x tolong masak kalau balik rumah MIL I sbb nk jaga @ watch over my kid. So I don't care what people said. As long I know my kid is safe with me.

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Anonymous

2y ago

Susahkan nk puaskan hati semua org... Kita buat, org pura2 x nmpk... Bila kita x buat, ckp mcm2.. Mcm sy senang. Kalau balik rumah MIL I time raya, adik beradik husband 7 org.. So u all lah yg buat keje rumah @ memasak semua tu.. Including my husband. U yg kena tolong abg kakak adik2 u untuk kemas rumah mak u. Tugas I, watch over our kid. Kalau balik rumah mak I pula, I n adik 2 beradik sahaja, so kitaorg la yg berhempas pulas mengemas rumah dan memasak. My husband n my sister's husband just watch over the kids. Somehow sebelah husband I mmg byk bunyi pasal nie. But I dont care. My husband pun asyik ckp, duduk tgk anak. Takut die lari sana sini. So awak, it's okay.. whatever u think is right for ur kid just do it. Nk puaskan hati semua org sampai bila2 pun diorg x akan puas hati..

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