Pag Lipat Sa Bahay Ng In-Laws

Hi Mommies, as of now I'm really bothered since my husband mentioned to me that we might have to live in his mother's house. I need advice :( I really value privacy since I am some kind of an introvert. Here's his reason and paki enlighten naman ako if this is acceptable :( Right now naka bukod naman kami ni husband. Bago ako manganak, MY parents wanted us to live sa bahay nila but then sabi ng Inlaws and asawa ko na mahirap makitira. Lahat na ng reasons not to live with in laws binigay nila. so tinurn down ko yung offer ng parents ko and left them sad about it. Naniniwala sila sa leave & cleave. But then bigla nalang na punta sa topic na gusto nyang lumipat kami sa bahay ng parents nya. He's an Architect and balak ng mom ni hubby mag pa tayo ng housing project which is in antipolo. (Makati kami nakatira now) reason ni hubby is because may work dun. Ayaw nya daw ako ma iwan mag isa with baby sa bahay dahil scared daw sya baka may pumasok or something. But I know na may iba pang reason. First is mejo mama's boy husband ko, 2nd is kasi wala ng makakasama yung mom and dad since bubukod na din yung kapatid and asawa nya. 3rd is because andun din yung isang anak nya from kabataan nya. Is this acceptable? Dapat ba kaming lumipat? :(