mommies. how do you still manage tp show your love and appreciation to your husband even if you were together for 10years or more. any tips how make him feel still fresh in our relationship?

Always tell him you love him and say thank you to him whenever you feel thankful and feel loved. Another way is to write a couple diary e.g.: http://www.amazon.com/Our-Day-3-Year-Journal-People/dp/0770436684 which will help both of you understand each other more and love each other even more.