Mother in law

MIL Wants to control everything, expect all housework to be done, expects me to be downstairs at 5 am and wait on her, vacuum and mop after she’s done and wants to control everything once my baby is born. This is my first child and I’m in my third trimester. Anyone has Any advises or stories to share? Feeling very, very angry every single day. Maybe I’m hormonal, I’m not sure. But I haven’t been able to enjoy my pregnancy lately. And I feel guilty because I’m happy, but I haven’t been feeling so good lately.

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In chinese custom the older generation will normally forbid preggy women from doing chores! Is this something that your MIL is used to even when she was pregnant in the past? Maybe thats why she’s also insisting you do the same.. but in all honesty i think it’s gonna get worse after you give birth. And anger isn’t great for your health or the baby! You deserve to feel good so dont feel bad about that. Try to move out if you can。

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