Mil requested to stay with us. She love our baby very much and she love his son also. She said she can help us taking care baby. Help us doing some house chores and cook meal for us. I really appreciated but I found that my role has been taken as she love both of them too much. My husband will take her mom as first place too as she really love him so much since young. Should I reject?? As I foresee it may have family issue in future. How should i reject? what should i do so that won't be the bad person to make the decision and won't spoilt the relation between my hubby and mil?

i used to stay with my pils until my hub is totally dependent on his mother for everything. He is literally like a small boy towards his parents. Staying together has its pros and cons. If child care arrangement is an issue, mil definitely has her plus points there. However, you might be prepared to lose some privacy and intimacy time with your own family. We moved out after staying for 2 years and my mil comes over to help us with our children from Mon to Fri. Weekends are our own family time. I find the current arrangement is good as there are lesser possible conflicts with pils and I am to build up my little nest. Be courageous and talk to your hub on what you think.