Mil requested to stay with us. She love our baby very much and she love his son also. She said she can help us taking care baby. Help us doing some house chores and cook meal for us. I really appreciated but I found that my role has been taken as she love both of them too much. My husband will take her mom as first place too as she really love him so much since young. Should I reject?? As I foresee it may have family issue in future. How should i reject? what should i do so that won't be the bad person to make the decision and won't spoilt the relation between my hubby and mil?

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Your love for your kids does not diminished because someone love them more.. But your love become conditional or tainted when you try to step between of someone who genuinely want to love them. Call it maternal instinct or whatsoever...at end of the day it is counter productive.