Health Care, Give me some positive or good insight or advices :(

It's ok po to be sad and to grieve, lalo na at grabe ang effort na ibinigay nyo sa relationship. Pero in the end, huwag manghinayang sa 5 years, because that's nothing in comparison to the rest of your life ahead of you. 5 years-- mas matagal pa elementary days mo. Hindi ito sayang as long as you learned something from that time, if those learnings will make you a better and stronger person, then hindi ito sayang ☺️ Yung sa pag-deactivate ng socmed, ok lang po yun, but I encourage you that you still maintain your messenger or other means to communicate with your close family and friends-- people that matter to you and actually loves you. Try not to stress too much about now being a "broken family". The people who truly loves you will understand while those who will not are most probably the people who doesn't matter. "The days are long but the years are short", it may seem impossible to move on now but trust me, you can and you will. Be kind to yourself. Allow yourself to be sad, angry, etc. pero samahan mo rin ng reflection and prayer. To "Forgive and forget" doesn't actually mean forget it in our minds but rather to forget/release the pain in our hearts 🤗 Contrary to common beliefs, forgiving is not really you releasing the wrong doers from their sins (that's for God to decide). For our part, forgiveness is to not let other people's mistakes punish us-- it's for our own sake, our own peace. Hindi mo kailangan kalimutan, pero kailangan mo matutunan na mawala yung sakit sa puso mo 🤗 Again, be kind to yourself and give yourself some time to do so. It may take months, years, most probably less than 5yrs but maybe more. It will be hard but I assure you that eventually, you'll be able to move on and be ok ☺️ It will happen gradually pero isang araw mare-realize mo na lng na wala na pala yung sakit sa puso mo "Hugs!" PS if you ever feel that the grief if stronger than you can manage, please don't hesitate to seek professional help.

Being raised in a broken family is bstter than in a toxic or disfunctional family. And ang pagchecheat po ay hindi dahil may pagkukulang ka. Nasa partner mo ang mali.. kulang sya s dedication and commitment na pwede nya din ulit ulitin ang pagchecheat sa iyo o sa iba.. Dahil yun sya, yun ang natural tendency nya. If yiu really love your kid, you will now wipe your cheeks at magstart ka magplan para sa buhay nyong dalawa. Basta may kahit isang parent sya na nagsusuply ng love, care and attention.. she will thrive. Basta sya ang focus mo. pero kung ang focus mo ay yung nagcheat mong partner, its like somewhat abandoned din ang mafefel ng anak mo emotionally. Be careful. You have to be strong willed.

masakit naman talaga.. pero ang hirap kasi pag sa isang relasyon nawala ang Trust tapos kasunod nito nawala respeto... di ka niya nirespeto bilang asawa niya (kasal ba kayo?) o bilang nanay ng anak niya... paano mo babalikan ang taong ganyan? wala kasi yan sa kung gaano kayo katagal e.. ang 5years napakaiksi lang niyan.. kumpara sa habang buhay mo titiisin mo pagsasama niyo dahil willing ka magpatawad.. Love Yourself and move Forward.. tandaan may anak ka totoong nagmamahal sayo.. balang araw makakatagpo ka din ng lalaking never ka pagpapalit sa iba.. at rerespetuhin ka bilang babae.

kase mga mami kaya nasabi ko paano ko tatalikuran yung 5yrs, sya lang pinaglaanan ko ng buhay ko at minahal ng todo. sya lang den naging kaibigan ko mula nung nabuntis nya ko. sya lang halos pinagsasabiha ko ng problema. pasensya na mga mami kung ang dramadrama ng post ko. salamat sa pagbabasa ng post ko at pagbigay ng advices

ganun po ba talaga mga lalake, kapag ang tagal ng bakante maghahanap kung sino pupuna kase ako mga mami handa magsariling sikap para lang hindi hanapin sa iba kung sakali mag work ako abroad :( kase alam namn nya mga plano namen/ko sa buhay namen kase may anak kami. Kaya lang ang sakit lang

Maging matatag ka para sa anak mo momshie, Kayanin Po dahil may Isang batang naka salalay Sayo. maging matatag ka. kung Hindi talaga para Sayo si ex husband mo may darating din, focus ka Muna sa anak mo momshie. mag heheal ka din 🥰 Praying for you and your baby girl

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