My husband is having affair with his colleague. how Long will it last?

My marriage is only 2 years. I went to see lawyer. She say i must wait till next year. Coz not 3 yrs. I have proven adultery. She say can’t coz must be 6 months b4 the divorce. Wtf. How can i live my life like that with my son? He now in love spell by her. He slept with her. Doesnt come home. Seriously i dont know what to do. I spoke to my mil. She n her husb is coming over to my house to talk. Till now they doesnt know that he got affair. I want him to confront to all of us. I wan to ask him. If u wan the women. Then u leave me n my dau. What u want. U hv already did alot of wrong things. How u expect me to accept u. Till the extend. The empty his water jug in the fridge. Wtf seriously. If he is in love spell. Then what must empty it is it. May i know hw does this love spell works and how long stay when will he be in his sense? I seriously need to know so i know where i stand. My hus is chinese n she is malay. Seriously i cannot tahan.

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Easy, work on yourself. Beautify your looks and stay healthy, show ur love to him and show u are stronger. Its all in the psychological turn. Men tend to compare and stay interested in the best one. If YOU rise above her, u win. Im sure he will come back to u. If he dont, he will be the one losing because you become a better self. Anyway please dont resort to separation yet coz within 5 years of marriage, there will be many challenges, and adultery is one. If u could convince him to marry you, u must learn to convince him to stay in one. I do truely understand how u feel and how disturbing it could be. The affair could be a one time thing and the one he marry is YOU which means he invested a future in you. Recognise them and rise up woman. Take charge and win back your man. Good luck!

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Home Just Mums marriage only 2 years i went see lawyer say i must wait till next year cozz nt 3 yrs i hv proven adultery say cant cozz must 6 months b4 e divource wtf how i live life like that with son husband having affair with colleague now in love spell slept with doesnt come homeseriously i dont know what i spoke mil n husb coming over house talktill now doesnt know that got affairi want him confront i wan ask him if wan women then leave