My husband is having affair with his colleague. how Long will it last?

My marriage is only 2 years. I went to see lawyer. She say i must wait till next year. Coz not 3 yrs. I have proven adultery. She say can’t coz must be 6 months b4 the divorce. Wtf. How can i live my life like that with my son? He now in love spell by her. He slept with her. Doesnt come home. Seriously i dont know what to do. I spoke to my mil. She n her husb is coming over to my house to talk. Till now they doesnt know that he got affair. I want him to confront to all of us. I wan to ask him. If u wan the women. Then u leave me n my dau. What u want. U hv already did alot of wrong things. How u expect me to accept u. Till the extend. The empty his water jug in the fridge. Wtf seriously. If he is in love spell. Then what must empty it is it. May i know hw does this love spell works and how long stay when will he be in his sense? I seriously need to know so i know where i stand. My hus is chinese n she is malay. Seriously i cannot tahan.

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In my experience affairs usually last between 6 months to a year. Once the novelty of doing something illicit is over, people usually get bored. If you’re willing to wait it out - I suggest asking him to move out or seek a temporary separation, so he can satisfy his “itch”. There is a risk that he may choose not to come back in this situation. And that’s something you need to be okay with. I am sorry that you are going thru such a hard time. Stay strong for your Daughter

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Home Just Mums marriage only 2 years i went see lawyer say i must wait till next year cozz nt 3 yrs i hv proven adultery say cant cozz must 6 months b4 e divource wtf how i live life like that with son husband having affair with colleague now in love spell slept with doesnt come homeseriously i dont know what i spoke mil n husb coming over house talktill now doesnt know that got affairi want him confront i wan ask him if wan women then leave