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I am a male with healthy sexual desire and I generally love my wife and family. The only problem is I am frustrated with my sexual life, my wife do not initiate nor is expressive with love. Sometimes I feel so mechanical and feel like looking for short term FB just to satisfy my needs. sigh! Mismatched.
You chose to marry her so she can't be all bad. Don't forget her good qualities and hold onto them while you focus on improving the other aspects of the relationship. Speak your truth - how you desire for more expressiveness when it comes to love; not being so mechanical etc. See it as both of you being able to learn and evolve together. Going for facilitated couple counseling or sexuality counseling can help. FB - farming out the problem can create MORE problems. Not only that, you'd be a cheater and liar and that might be a life worth living out.
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