My kids at home use to have "kulitan" to the point that they already hit each other . One time I scolded them because of that and even spank there butts . Is it okay to discipline them like what i did or I'm doing it the wrong way ?

Our culture has been so used of corporal punishment that we still deem it necessary for disciplining our child. However, studies have shown that this kind of practice isn't beneficial, long-term speaking. It subconsciously creates anxiety, fear and intimidation among young kids. Eventually, they will carry it to adulthood. It's best to control your hands and discipline through words. Educate, according to Unicef. Here's their guideline should you need a more detailed read http://www.unicef.org/lac/spbarbados/Implementation/CP/Global/Educate_donthit_SaveManual.pdf