Just tested through a home pregnancy test and the faint line on the indicator says so. But I just got married and I know my hubby wants to concentrate on building his career. He did say he do not want any kids for the first few years. I am not sure if I should tell him yet. what are your thoughts?

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You should definitely tell your husband about your pregnancy. I don't see there is any link between having a baby will defer any careeer building opportunity unless he will be going overseas (then you will need to consider to follow him or not). Your husband might response otherwise when he receives the pregnancy news. I have a lot of friend's husband mentioned that do not want kid so soon but their reaction when the baby came is overjoyed afterall. If he insist not to want the baby, you have the right to keep your baby because you are the mother of the little live. If you husband is worrying about finance, there is always a way to work out something. Try to adjust the lifestyles or find alternatives to get additional incomes and etc. There are really alot of options to prepare and welcome the baby in terms of finances. E.g. you can get referral letter from polyclinic to be a subsidised patient which is cost almost less than 1k for whole pregnancy and delivery. My hubby and I married young and had a baby right after both graduated from a master degree. We don't have any financial foundation at all as we just started to work. We slowly build up from the start. Although we don't enjoy luxurious things and send our babies to different enrichment classes, but the joy brought by children is really worth everything.

I'll say that you should probably have it checked out first - maybe confirm it with an ultrasound scan or blood test (sometimes, there can be false positives, it happens!). After it's been confirmed, then talk to your husband about it. I know sometimes, we feel like we shouldn't tell our partners because of the added pressure and stress that we may add - but at the same time, he is the father of the child and has the right to know about it. Sit down and have a calm chat together and discuss what your next steps would be - while it may not be planned, sometimes these things happen because they are meant to (I'm a single mother). Discuss about things before you make any decision together as a couple, and support each other through whatever decision you end up making :)

He said he did not want kids yet, he did not say he didn't want kids at all. Since it has already come, maybe it's just meant to be? No point worrying about it since it's a fact, and he's your hubby so he should definitely be hand in hand together with you on this. Try to talk things out, let him know you are pregnant. Maybe you'll get a pleasant surprise. Having a baby may not be a hindrance to his career. From my experience, it is actually a motivating factor for him to strive at work. It is pride and joy for a man to provide for his family. :)

Agree with Jamie, if he doesn't want kids in the short run, should have exercise precaution. Agree with Diana also that baby has nothing to do with his building his career because ultimately it will be you not him who has to be around for the baby. If he is worried about finances, Ya, it might eat into some finances, but you can work it to balance it - like home cook instead of eating out, buy less stuff and etc. He has a right to know and he should know because it is a shared responsibility. Don't drag it for it might get into a problem later.

If he didn't want any kids, he should have taken precautions. A baby is a shared responsibility. Yes, you should tell him immediately so the both of you can decide on the next course of action. Why are you afraid of telling him? Are you afraid that he might suggest an abortion? My thoughts are that the both of you should sit down and talk this out. It is tiring, but extremely rewarding. I would treat the baby as a blessing even if it was unplanned.

I think the first thing that you should do is see a doctor to confirm that you are 100% pregnant and if you are, confront your husband. sometimes, unexpected things happen. life doesn't always lead us to things that we want you just have to face it and besides a baby is a blessing. i don't think having a baby will be a hindrance to his career, it would actually serve as an inspiration for him.

tell him, he don't have an option anyway. it's his child and responsibility. my pregnancy isn't planned also but my partner soon realizes that he's already a father and he now know his priorities. he's now too concerned about the baby and my delicate pregnancy and he's so excited about the future. so don't hesitate.

Hello U should tell ur hubby as its a shared responsibility...if ur preg is of about 45 days u should use mtp pills by taking ur docs consultation...nd its totally safe...its true dat aborting ur first child may results sometym in difficulty in conceiving further but its in case of instrumental abortion cases

Oh you should find a best time to tell him. Whatever he may think, being a mom is something special and not all women have a chance. Think it in a good way, and eventhough u just got pregnant, your baby does feel what u feel and carry that for his/her whole life. So be positive and smile !