Cheating Husband who makes less money than me

Just found out my husband of 8 years has been cheating on me. I'm devastated but more concerned for the kids - they are 3 and 5, and from every study I have read, divorce is one of the worst things that can happen to a child. I can't bear to do this to them but at the same time, I'm not sure I can ever forgive my husband. I am not financially dependent on him (I actually make more money than him). He is still a great father...I really don't know what to do. Please help.

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I also have that experience before and it was so painful. I cried everyday for three years. My husband is a seaman so it was more difficult for me. It has really ruined my relationship with him. I don't communicate much with him and we don't talk. Although I have overcome the pain already and we are still together because of our two daughters, the relationship is never the same. I would leave him if I were you because you won't be happy with him anymore. Good luck and hope you will make the right decision.

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Home Random Talk just found out my husband of 8 years has been cheating on me im devastated but more concerned for the kids they are 3 and 5 and from every study i have read divorce is one of the worst things that can happen to a child i cant bear to do this to them but at the same time im not sure i can ever forgive my husband i am not financially dependent on him i actually make more money than him he is still a great fatheri really dont know what to do please help