Understand how you r feeling now as my 5 year old is also demanding time from me when I also need to take care of my 1 year old. From time to time I will let others take care of my younger one for maybe a couple of hours then I will solely take care of the older one to let him/her feel that at least mummy still has me in her eyes. And also try to hold your anger when the older one does wrong... I know it's difficult but try (count to 10 or go another room or don't talk to the child first to calm ur anger). Try to do things together with the younger one - read books, watch tv, eat go out or can even ask the older one to help out taking care of the younger one... From there they will bond. Things wi be rocky at the start but will be better as they grow older. Jia you~!!!!
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