It is definitely not easy handling two children. Guess you will need to try and find a balance.
Firstly, don't be too hard on yourself as you are probably doing the best you can.
Secondly, while the baby needs a lot of care and attention, the older child needs your attention too. Try explaining to your number one that he is now the older brother and should help mummy take care of his younger brother. Also, always assure him that mummy still loves him and that no one could replace him in your heart.
Thirdly, like I've mentioned, try to strike a balance. Be sure to spend some alone time with your firstborn too. He needs time to adjust to having a sibling and needs plenty of assurance that nothing much has changed despite the new addition to the family. Hence, both you and your husband could spend time alone with him to assure him that he still matters a lot to both of you.
It will not be easy with the demands of looking after the newborn. But it is very important to ensure that everyone in the family can adapt to the change positively.
Hang in there mummy!!
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