OMG!
Hope u r better now.
This is a definite no no.
We all understand that the infant needs yr love and concern more but u need to love yr #1 even more.
He already know what is love and je used to hv 100% but now he is only getting 50% or even lesser. This is not fair for him.
Please spare a thought for his feelings.
What i would suggest ia to speak nicely to him and most importantly admit yr mistake and apoligise to him.
He will definitely feel better.
Engaged him together while i r breastfeeding your #2.
Hugged and kissed him more often.
He mustn't feel left out or unloved cos this impression will b with him for life. He will think #2 has taken everything away from him. He will hate #2.
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