tips to bring back that loving feeling?

To have a healthy relationship, like a plant, you have to take care of it. And to keep your relationship going you need to keep doing new things to keep boredom at bay. You can make weekend plans, a short trip to a nearby place will do the trick for you. You can leave the kids with your parents or can tell a relative to babysit them. You can make out time when the kids have gone to school. Catch a movie, cook with each other, go to spa together etc.