Hi. This isnt totally a question i just wouldn't want to post something like this on any social media which i cant post anonymously or else they might judge my husband poorly right away . I just need to share. I got married to a man that I really love. The thing is i came from a little well off fam. I go to FEU, while my husband isn't that much. His mom is a sari sari store owner, and his dad is a rice farmer. I dont mind that at all, my family doesn't either. I live with them embracing the kind of life he can give to me and our 2 month old daughter. My sentiment is that, it is my birthday today... and we are in my sisters house weve been here for over a couple of weeks now because a relative just passed away, so we are almost running out of money, i know that he couldnt do anything here in my sisters house to earn money, because if we were home theres a possibility he could from vulcanizing and we have this billiard table. Its just that, he knows that my birthday is coming, and just told me that he's sorry if he hasnt got anything for me when its my first birthday together. Yes, we got in a relationship and i got pregnant and gave birth in less than a year, but he's been courting me since 2015. I just dont know... i feel sad, and i am actually crying in the bathroom because i dont know if its okay to tell him that i am hurt because he doesnt have anything for me for my birthday it sounds so childish but i dont know i really am so sad. This isnt quite a question i just need to share this out. Thank you.

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it will pass my dear. sentiment ika nga. atleast he apologized. as the saying goes, "dont expect as it hurts" meanwhile, whatever kind of family backround we have it won't define who we are, so kudos on what u have shared about his background. Since you just have started a family and there are still things that dont go your way and it can be frustrating yes. but sooner or later ur life as husband and wife with a kid will mature. what I mean will mature is that things like not having gift or cake on ur bday will be fine because there are other bigger things happening. happy birthday to you my dear, continue supporting ur husband and I am sure his brain is working in the background on how to make things work for living and supporting you and his daughter. before I forget, men are like nails. kailangan pukpukin. sometime we need to tell them what we want. they like hearing it.

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