Hi. This isnt totally a question i just wouldn't want to post something like this on any social media which i cant post anonymously or else they might judge my husband poorly right away . I just need to share. I got married to a man that I really love. The thing is i came from a little well off fam. I go to FEU, while my husband isn't that much. His mom is a sari sari store owner, and his dad is a rice farmer. I dont mind that at all, my family doesn't either. I live with them embracing the kind of life he can give to me and our 2 month old daughter. My sentiment is that, it is my birthday today... and we are in my sisters house weve been here for over a couple of weeks now because a relative just passed away, so we are almost running out of money, i know that he couldnt do anything here in my sisters house to earn money, because if we were home theres a possibility he could from vulcanizing and we have this billiard table. Its just that, he knows that my birthday is coming, and just told me that he's sorry if he hasnt got anything for me when its my first birthday together. Yes, we got in a relationship and i got pregnant and gave birth in less than a year, but he's been courting me since 2015. I just dont know... i feel sad, and i am actually crying in the bathroom because i dont know if its okay to tell him that i am hurt because he doesnt have anything for me for my birthday it sounds so childish but i dont know i really am so sad. This isnt quite a question i just need to share this out. Thank you.

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Aww sis, hmm cheer up and happy birthday. Come to think of it, babawi yan sya. Kung walang pandemic ngayon or walang crisis, baka pumitas pa ng bulaklak yan or bilan ka ng simpleng regalo at handaan ng simple. He's a simple man so i know you're not expecting something grand too. Hindi nya rin lugar yang pinuntahan nyo, at humingi na sya ng pasensya. You know? Kung nakita or narinig ka nyang umiyak, he'll break too. I mean, he'll be hurt. Cuz it hurts a man, when he can't do something to make u happy. He knows himself he will and he can, but the situation just won't allow him. So please understand him. And tell him that you feek that way please. Cuz once you've thought that way, it will always come to you. Remember, prevention is better than cure. We might as well prevent future situations like that to avoid painful revelations

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