Hi. This isnt totally a question i just wouldn't want to post something like this on any social media which i cant post anonymously or else they might judge my husband poorly right away . I just need to share. I got married to a man that I really love. The thing is i came from a little well off fam. I go to FEU, while my husband isn't that much. His mom is a sari sari store owner, and his dad is a rice farmer. I dont mind that at all, my family doesn't either. I live with them embracing the kind of life he can give to me and our 2 month old daughter. My sentiment is that, it is my birthday today... and we are in my sisters house weve been here for over a couple of weeks now because a relative just passed away, so we are almost running out of money, i know that he couldnt do anything here in my sisters house to earn money, because if we were home theres a possibility he could from vulcanizing and we have this billiard table. Its just that, he knows that my birthday is coming, and just told me that he's sorry if he hasnt got anything for me when its my first birthday together. Yes, we got in a relationship and i got pregnant and gave birth in less than a year, but he's been courting me since 2015. I just dont know... i feel sad, and i am actually crying in the bathroom because i dont know if its okay to tell him that i am hurt because he doesnt have anything for me for my birthday it sounds so childish but i dont know i really am so sad. This isnt quite a question i just need to share this out. Thank you.

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Thank you so much everyone. I feel so bad about myself. I know I married a good man and not having anything for my birthday because of our situation isn't really a big deal, i know if we were home he'd do something. he's been a good husband since day 1, he never made me feel alone in this journey especially when our daughter came he makes sure that i get the rest that i needed we would take turns to put her to bed or play with her whenever she's awake. He never shouted at me even once even though im sure i am being a brat most of the time. Maybe i just felt bad on my birthday because it felt like just an ordinary day but i felt guilty right after because i know he feels bad also that he couldnt even buy a cake or anything. Im so thankful that i found this app it actually very helpful. Thank you!!!

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