My in-laws are very insecure. They are always sulking about my husband not giving attention to them, whereas he is a good son. It stresses him and ultimately us. Also if I make efforts to be in regular touch with them, they get too interfering. What can I do?

It is indeed a very common scenario in Indian households. Having said that, there cannot ever be a common solution applicable to all, because different people react differently in a certain instance. Balance can be achieved. A little attention and a little space enough to not get them habituated so that they end up complaining. At that age, elders behave like kids and demand more attention and complain more often. Very rarely we see parents understanding and adjusting and letting go. It's ok. Do not get angry, and try and be as empathatic as possible. Rest cribs you will have to ignore and let go else everything will start bothering you, ruining your peace. One last thing to keep in mind- you cannot change anyone at that age. Both parties need to see a middle way out. All the best!