Hub out for KTV

I'm on my 20th week and as I'm typing this, my heart's beating real fast and almost not knowing what to do. Hub just came back from Happy Hour and I came to know he went to a sleazy KTV with a booked room. 2.5hours he came back home, drunk and snoring away now. If he would to say nothing happened, I'm sure no one would believe. Please tell me what I should do now. I'm trembling with anger.

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I think the best thing to do right now is to keep calm first, as baby would always come first. You can check with him the next day or see if he would initiate to inform you what he did yesterday if not you can just ask casually like what did he do, why was he so tired. At times, before assuming and be angry, just wait for a while to see. After all, you're pregnant so mind your health!

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6y ago

You got to calm down first for the sake of your baby, have a chat with him. However, think through if you're going to have a chat with him about it, what are the different types of consequences that might happen. Try to plan in advance, always have a backup plan to fall back on. You can always roleplay in your mind first, but don't bother waking him right now cause he's also drunk, it doesn't benefit you in this way. Always prioritise your baby first.