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Im really sorry if i have to rant it here . But im like mentally drained right now . So basically right now im going to have an upcoming baby number 3 . Which is me and husband didnt plan for the 3rd . But basically he ask me to kept it . So we agree on it . But the thing is right now my second baby is only 1 years old and im right now 4 months pregnant . Im having a hard time taking care of him , a few times me at home giving him medication he will kick my tummy super hard and its painful . And whenever i scold him he wont listen he keep on crying so loud . My first son is already going to sparkletots . So yea . Right now im trying to say that im mentally drained . Im not even ready for the 3rd baby bcos im staying my own hse nobody is helping me . Like i have to do everything in this hse . Husband is always working . Hais . Any advice on hw to takecare of my upcoming baby and my toodmes 1 years old . Like newborn baby is tiring . Sleepless night and wverything . I knw myself. When im too stress i will cry. And will tell my husband abt it but he will nvr understand my situation bcos he thinks that staying home is not tiring with kids. (": pls help me....

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Sorry to hear this! It sounds so stressful! Is your husband open to employing some form of help? Even if not comfortable with hiring a full-time helper maybe can get a part-time cleaner to take off the domestic chores from your hands?

6y ago

I wish he can understand what im facing but he seems like he dont understand. We argue abt this matter alot. He said staying home taking care of the kids is not tiring (": . Hahaha . Im mentally drained.