Personality clashes with in laws

I’m having trouble adapting to my wife’s family. My family is more reserved and only talk about topics that matter, while hers just keeps talking non stop about every small little issues. She also expects me to be the same and care about the topics in discussion. Sometimes they just talk so loudly over each other that I feel like I’m draining out. Can someone advise how I should handle this?

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I'm an introvert too so I get how you feel. Being around extroverted people can be very draining. Do you live with your wife's family? Is it possible to distance yourself once in a while to recharge? Having lots of personal me time is very important. After you're fully recharged and in a good mood perhaps you can try engaging in the conversation, or even just listen without participating. Best of luck!

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