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I'd say that you are the mother of your children, so do what you feel is best! I can't exactly advise on what you can do with your in-laws, but when I gave birth, I only told a small handful of friends that: 1) I delivered the baby 2) I'd reply late for the next few weeks because I'd be spending all my time with my newborn so I wouldn't have time to reply them 3) Nobody should come visit until I said it was okay (I didn't tell them the ward/room etc, and made it clear we didn't want any visitors until confinement is over) For my relatives, I don't keep in contact with them so my parents shared the news - and the spam goes to them and not me. Likewise, we were firm in saying that we didn't want any visitors until the full month celebration!

I feel you mummy. As i have similar situation, my understanding husband actually helped me in this. He was the one who told me that I should get more rest and shall not inform anyone else except my own parents and in laws BUT he will try to tell in laws that i need more rest, please try not to disturb me in hospital, if they would want to visit the baby, they may do so when we were alrd home or after 1st month. It helps! Get hubby to talk to them, tell them you just had c-sect and requires more rest than natural. Think they would understand better. So end up my In laws didnt come, only sil came and visit like less than 30mins. Other than that, only my parents came with my no1 to visit us in hospital.

Thank you :)

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